How to Deal With Next-Level Family Drama at Your Wedding
即使你觉得自己像家人，大多数情况下，正常的，没有什么比婚礼更能让家庭戏剧浮出水面的了。如果你的家人包括say,half a dozen siblings and parents with several divorces under their belts— Hey,newly engaged Rob Kardashian —you might be tempted to take a pass on the drama and just elope.But if you'd rather have big party than a trip to city hall,you 可以 make it happen with some careful juggling.Here's how Rob and 布莱克奇纳 —and every couple who's up against serious family drama—can pull off a traditional wedding.__
Your Families Disapprove
YOUR WEDDING: Your sister's never liked your groom,or his mom wishes he were marrying someone Jewish.
__ROB & BLAC CHYNA'S WEDDING: __While Blac Chyna's friends and family are excited (both her mom and BFF have congratulated the couple on social media) Rob's family (all of his sisters as well as Kris and Caitlyn) has been noticeably silent.
HOW TO DEAL: 如果每个人都像你一样兴奋，那就太好了，but it's never a guarantee.If your friends or family are lukewarm about your engagement give them opportunities to get involved in the wedding planning—bring over a bunch of venue brochures or poll them on color palettes—and hope your enthusiasm is contagious.Or,如果他们需要更多的时间来了解你的意图，plan some one-on-one time with individual family members—bring your mom to lunch or have one of his siblings over for dinner.(Resist the urge to kill many birds with one stone by bringing your groom to a huge family gathering,which will just feel intimidating.)
You HAVE to Invite Both Halves of Former Couples
YOUR WEDDING: You're super-close with your aunt—who's in the middle of a nasty divorce from your mother's brother.
__ROB & BLAC CHYNA'S WEDDING: Rob最小的妹妹Kylie,is dating Tyga,新娘的前夫和 the father of her child.Rob is also tight with Lamar Odom (sister Khloe's ex-husband) and Scott Disick (Kourtney's ex and the father of her three kids).Plus,where do Kris,凯特琳科里·甘布尔落在座位表上了？?
__HOW TO DEAL:__Go ahead and invite everyone and trust that they can act like grown-ups.If there's a particularly bitter couple,talk to them about their plus-one status: If the wound is fresh,ask your uncle not 带上他的新女友。Or,if the split is old news,只要把他们的前男友会在那儿的头抬起来，以及他是否会带一个正的。
YOUR WEDDING: You don't know why your mom's sisters had a falling out,但你知道，他们多年来一直没有说话。
ROB & BLAC CHYNA'S WEDDING: Rob的妹妹Kim嫁给了Kanye West，who dated Amber Rose—the bride's BFF—who had a social media beef with Kanye earlier this year and Khloe Kardashian last winter.
__HOW TO DEAL:__Again,trust everyone on your guest list to act like grown-ups—but help them avoid each other by seating them as far apart as possible.If you're worried about certain guests butting heads and won't have a security detail,a la Rob and Blac Chyna,如果事情变得越来越热，就让你的婚礼派对上的几个成员进行干预。
You're Worried About the Hard Partiers
__ROB & BLAC CHYNA'S WEDDING: __Both Scott Disick and Lamar Odom,close friends of Rob's,有药物滥用史。
__HOW TO DEAL:Tip off your bartender if you suspect anyone's going to be hitting the open bar too hard.给他一个自由的统治权，给他提供水下饮料或完全切断人们的联系。Also give your DJ or bandleader the short list of people who are allowed to give speeches.